SDC.com: The Only Game In Town for Swinging
SDC - Swingers Date Club
Summary: We like this site, it's run by swingers for swingers. No fakery. Swap your wife or husband - get invited to a swinging party. Pure no nonsense adult fun.
4.1
Overall Score
I hadn’t visited SDC for a few years. But after reviewing a heck of a lot of trashy adult sites in recent months, I was pleasantly surprised by this one.
It’s plain to see when you go to SDC.com that this is a quality website made by Swinger enthusiasts for Swingers.
Everything about it tells you they understand the lifestyle. They make everything super easy to get started and get into the swing. In my view, no other xxx dating site around today does that.
What’s unusual about SDC is that they don’t “puff up” their website with a load of fake users. They don’t go in for baiting tactics to get you to sign up. They don’t block off all areas of the site and pester you constantly until you to upgrade. None of that shit! This is for real.
SDC doesn’t abuse it’s members or take the piss. You can see that from the start. Why? Because they don’t need to. SDC.com is run by it’s members, for it’s members. Just take a look at the activity that’s going on there and it’s hard not to be taken in by it.
How to Get “Swinging”?
You have a few options when you join up on SDC. Or –Swingers Date Club– that’s the full name.
Join as a couple, or you can join as a straight or bisexual single. They let you change your status at any time. So don’t sweat too much at the start. You can also say exactly what sort of swinging action you’re after. There’s three main varieties:
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- Full swap – this is for full-on sex with another couple or single
- Soft swap – for touching, petting and watching only
- Two females – for anyone looking for a threesome with two girls
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Single Guys: What Are You Bringing to the Party?
Guys, sorry but if you’re all alone things can be tough on SDC. Based on adultmatefind’s inside sources the most “in demand” are full swap couples, then female couples, then single females. Last of all are single men! See below.
This is after all a discreet club for couples to come together. If you go on there as a single guy, then you have to bring something to the party. The following are possibilities:
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- Be well endowed – like a bull elephant perhaps?
- Be incredibly well connected – I mean socially
- Being a love god – perhaps a retired porn actor 😉
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If you think you’re any of the above then you’re in for a shot. If not, I’d say don’t even waste your time. Just go to Hornymatches or Hornywife instead. Amy Martinez has talked about those.
Going On As A Couple
As I said, SDC is totally geared up for couples. So much so that the profile pages are arranged into sections for two people; male and female or a same sex duo. You can get down to basics like how you both look, what sexual stuff you’re into, and how far you can travel. Put it all down as it fleshes out your credentials.
[quote]Most couples do go out of their way to write a bit about themselves. Most being straight and honest. I didn’t once come across anything that looked fake or bogus.[/quote]
The search is actually fairly accurate. It returns damn decent results based on just settings like sexual preference, and location. If you click on the “validated” tab, it’ll show only profiles that have been checked and approved. The other choices are new and updated. These all bring back couples in your local area.
I was super impressed by the quality of profiles too. Most couples do go to the trouble of writing a bit about themselves and are straight and honest. I didn’t once come across anything that looked fake or bogus.
They have a strict scam report and check system. SDC members rule their own site themselves. There’s not many websites you can say that for these days! Even the mainstream ones.
To come across as being serious, you need to work to this high standard too. It’s no good just slapping up a feeble profile with nothing in it. Nobody’s going to go for that sort of crap.
If you’re a single male looking for a couple you need to work extra hard. Say in your “describe yourself”section just what you’re going to bring to the table (see my above tips).
| Our SDC profiles | Replies we got (after 2 weeks) |
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| Full swap couple, seeking any | 61% – 31 emails send, 19 replies |
| Soft swap couple, seeking any | 53% – 34 emails sent, 21 replies |
| Single female, seeking couples | 67% – 24 emails sent, 16 replies |
| Single male, seeking couples | 7% – 14 emails sent, 1 reply |
See our stats above.
Is SDC.com a bit of a Clique?
Getting “accepted” on SDC can get you into that elite underworld club. It’s the ticket to these secret parties where everyone wants to be.
When we first joined up to SDC, the adultmatefind crew and I felt a bit lonely. Like outsiders. Everyone on there seemed to have their own language, friends and seemed to know each other. At least that’s how it felt.
This is a massive swinger club that stretches far and wide. We came across German swingers who’d traveled to the U.S. Just for sex parties. We met other couples who were so popular, they’d be invited to just about every swinger event in their state.
[highlight bg=”#ffba00″ color=”#000000″]Tip: Get to know the regulars •[/highlight] Breaking into this secret world can be tricky. But it’s possible. What you have to do is get to know some of the more experienced players in your area. Only then will you start to get invites and get noticed in this underground culture.
What we found is that there’s usually stuff going on in most towns. Even small places. It’s just these private parties go on discreetly and unnoticed by the masses. But behind closed curtains there are wild orgies going on. Where suburban housewives get banged in front of their husbands. Where you can swap your wife for a super hot mature woman just for the night!
Getting “accepted” on SDC can get you into that elite underworld club. It’s the ticket to these secret parties where everyone wants to be.
Breaking “Into It” – Being Spotted
There’s a few extras that are worth a mention. By the way, you get as standard a trial use of the site. It doesn’t expire, it just limits how much you can do. To unblock you’ll need to become a full or lifetime member. Either of these will open up everything.
[quote]Private parties go on discreetly and unnoticed by the masses. But behind closed curtains there are wild orgies going on.[/quote]
Parties and events. Anyone can be a party organizer on SDC. That’s what really sets it apart and makes it a club. We found tons of action going on in our area that we didn’t know about. These are all super private, hot sexy gatherings. Just for people in the know.
Put yourself in the spotlight. One way to get noticed quickly is to use the photo/video spotlight. What that does it get yourself out into the middle of things. It’ll probably get you at least a few new contacts. Maybe even an invite to a party.
Want to travel, swinging style? No problem. SDC even has it’s own travel agency. Here you can book a swinging holiday in some exotic location. Find a hottie on the website? You can just check if she’s going on any of the tours, and sign up too. Meet her in the flesh!
Overall : Is SDC Any Good?
All in all, we loved SDC. If you’re a wife swapper at heart, this is probably the only game in town right now. Sure there are other websites out there but the plus with Swingers Date Club is:
- It’s totally geared up for & understands swinging.
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There’s no fakery on there. It’s a real site full of real people.
About the Author
Julia Marella is a keen blogger, as well as a writer for several leading men's magazines. Before that she enjoyed a successful career as a glamor model. In her free time she loves aerobics as well as Latin dancing.
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